Which is worse??? 👀

For me nothing kills a boner quicker than a shitty personality. Looks gets you the initial attraction. Personality seals the deal.

TheBellaRoseXo said: (snip) (one of the reasons I don’t crucify men for having eyes - so long as they have the awareness not to stare greater than three Mississippi’s like a baby will). (snip) Click to expand... *note to self: 5 Mississippi's is too much* 😆

Take the engaging personality every time. Rather have fond memories of the whole time spent together not just one part of it. Good personality makes more comfortable and easier to communicate what might be needed to make the foreplay more enjoyable.

I would choose neither, but since it's about choosing the lesser ills of the two, I'd definitely take the first option—an igniting personality. From personal experiences I have noticed that someone with a better personality at least makes me smile when I go home. On the other hand an intolerable personality, regardless of the extraordinary foreplay, leaves me disappointed at the end. In particular there's one companion I saw three times. Excellent foreplay and intimacy, but had no conversation skills nor an interesting personality. No laughter, not even a smile. After each date I'd feel drained (not in the best way) and a little sad. I eventually decided to move on.

I voted that a bad personality is worse. But if I’m already in a session with a bad personality, I could turn it into a hate fuck. Pretend I’m banging my cheating gf one last time.

TheBellaRoseXo said: @80watts A) Please stop speaking for women on how chemistry is fostered for them. We have multiple generations responding in these threads, as well as differing levels of self-awareness and societal influence in upbringing (hence me “wondering how the gents will vote”). Blake has touched on some nuance here, and did not regard herself as a saint at all. It’s obvious, however, that you view finding someone others view as conventionally unattractive as a saint-like quality. Her standards are just simply less based on physical appearance (as are mine). I find a man telling me what I will enjoy (an ego-based personality trait) absolutely insufferable - regardless of his physical appearance. B) You are correct on society being hard-wired for attraction (particularly symmetry). Babies even have this and will stare at people they find beautiful (one of the reasons I don’t crucify men for having eyes - so long as they have the awareness not to stare greater than three Mississippi’s like a baby will). C) Something I purposefully left out to see if it would be brought up organically: Attraction to personality is separate from someone’s ability to read another’s body language or follow direction given about likes and dislikes. With that said, some people have never practiced the art of giving direction or demonstrating what they like. This is a two-way street. I appreciate how many times men brought up communication. Quite endearing! D) The original poster was referring to personality versus physical skill in foreplay. I mentioned nothing about physical appearance or attractiveness. @blakealridge Appreciate your input love! I share the sentiments you stated. ☺♥ Click to expand... You ask stupid questions, you get answers you don't like.... Men and women are wired differently... go read that book "Man are from Mars, Women are from Venus".... When you ask question for a survey of things, every answer you get has to be included... What most people do to alter the results is throw out the far off answers, to qualify their thesis, calling them "statisical outliers" .... I gonna hazard to say most guys here are all about the fucking and getting their dick sucked...

My question is the originator of this thread, using Perb to do research for a class project.... remember you have to include all responses or else you are modifying the data spectrum....

Someone sounds triggered 🤣 Have a great day hun. May something interesting and eventful happen for you!

TheBellaRoseXo said: Someone sounds triggered 🤣 Have a great day hun. May something interesting and eventful happen for you! Click to expand...

TheBellaRoseXo said: Someone sounds triggered 🤣 Have a great day hun. May something interesting and eventful happen for you! Click to expand... I don’t know why so many people feel they have something to prove online with insults 🤦🏻‍♂️

If she can get me hard (pretty easy to do) and the mechanics of fucking work well, that's all I need to enjoy sex with someone I connect well with. Though I'd think twice about repeating if it was sex I paid for.