looking for advice when a SP doesn't look like her photos

hi 👋 sorry if this has been addressed somewhere. i am a total newb and i have so far seen two SP's in vancouver from two different agencies and both times felt like i was deceived by the agencies' photos. in both cases i had booked someone fit, toned, and fairly flat stomached. this is how i look, and this is my strong preference. both times i was instead met with extremely voluptuous, curvy, thicc, etc. big hour glass girls, which is not at all my preference and, for me personally, is a turn off. i am not entirely sure either girl was even the girl from the photos. i still went forward with both dates and tried to be polite and enthusiastic but i really wasn't that into either experience. is this a normal part of this hobby or did i just get unlucky?

Sadly it is a part of the hobby, but it doesn’t always happen this way. Also sadly, asian SP’s have a very bad reputation in this regard, bait and switch seems to be more common in that segment of the industry than elsewhere. Do your homework here and ask questions of other perbites. Most reviews of an SP, agency or indy, indicate if her pictures are accurate. It’s one of the top things we all want to know before we book someone. You can also contribute and help others avoid the problem. Write a review of the girls you met who were not what you were expecting from their pictures and let other guys know.

Go to reputable agencies that are known to have pics of the actual girls ( even if they just show body no face ) . the only times that ever happens to me is when I go to one offs or micros from LL .

If the woman is definitely not the one in the ad you can walk away. They didn’t hold up their end of the bargain and you have no obligation to stay. If the pictures are the right person but grossly misleading it’s an on the spot decision. Sometimes I tell them they are not what I expected and leave. Sometimes I stay to see how things go. And always regret it. This is when you’re glad you weren’t stupid enough to have them come to your house.

westwoody said: If the woman is definitely not the one in the ad you can walk away. They didn’t hold up their end of the bargain and you have no obligation to stay. If the pictures are the right person but grossly misleading it’s an on the spot decision. Sometimes I tell them they are not what I expected and leave. Sometimes I stay to see how things go. And always regret it. This is when you’re glad you weren’t stupid enough to have them come to your house. Click to expand... how does it work with the agencies if i were to politely reject her and leave? the first agency i used says on their website an on sight rejection will result in a ban on first offence, the other agency is less specific about it

Its a business transaction and if you ordered something that turned out to be not what you expected (obviously outside any normal tolerances), walk. If the agency decides to black list you, have you lost anything? One of the reasons so much of this bait and switch is out there is because pooners don't walk.

Your dairy queen banana split doesnt look as advertised either.

I mean , even if they look not exactly but pretty much like the picture , I’m mostly ok w it . when they look absolute nothing like the picture , its a mix of emotions . The last time it happened , ironically I could tell that the picture was actually the same girl . But the photo shop had been so grossly over used that even though you could tell it was her , you could barely tell , I had to look twice and really look hard . Her hair , teeth , skin and eyes had all been photo shopped so much that even though I thought the girl in the photo was OK , I was definitely Not into the real thing at all !!

lukom said: Your dairy queen banana split doesnt look as advertised either. Click to expand... You’re not putting your dick in the banana split ( well hopefully not at least )….

dick666 said: how does it work with the agencies Click to expand... Plenty of fish in the sea! Some agencies post fake pics routinely, and getting banned from them is no loss. Other agencies will happily take your money.

dick666 said: how does it work with the agencies if i were to politely reject her and leave? the first agency i used says on their website an on sight rejection will result in a ban on first offence, the other agency is less specific about it Click to expand... Ask yourself if its an agency you want to deal with in the future? They have fake / misleading pictures of one girl, you can bet that do it for all of them. Is getting a ban from them really a problem?

Once you go black said: You’re not putting your dick in the banana split ( well hopefully not at least )…. Click to expand... Pls don't judge me and my actions...

GeeBeeP said: Ask yourself if its an agency you want to deal with in the future? They have fake / misleading pictures of one girl, you can bet that do it for all of them. Is getting a ban from them really a problem? Click to expand... for the record the agencies were Asian Fever and Coco Collective.

Lol at the suggestion that you walk away if you don't like what you see. Come on now, how many of us have actually done that? None of us are thinking with our right head in the moment.

localguy said: Pls don't judge me and my actions... Click to expand... 🤣 JK , just JKng 😜

Personally, Do my research on the person and the photos first, if I don't I can't expect much success in them being accurate when I show up. Show up. Right as I'm still through the door, not 15 minutes into it: 1. if the photos aren't even the person I'm meeting, I briefly explain that and just turn around and leave. 2. if the photos are the person I'm meeting, but grossly different than their current look, I'd politely explain she's not what I expected and pay a small tip and leave. If there was a deposit, I just leave and let them keep it.

So you'd prefer apple pie? 🤣

YYC said: Lol at the suggestion that you walk away if you don't like what you see. Come on now, how many of us have actually done that? None of us are thinking with our right head in the moment. Click to expand... Get burned enough times and you'll have no problem at all walking away.

dunce911 said: They keep on doing it because they get away with it. Click to expand... You got a date with Yui Hatano? Wow Yeah.. not walking away perpetuates the problem, they need to face consequences.

lukom said: Your dairy queen banana split doesnt look as advertised either. Click to expand... Sometimes you dont want the banana popping up in the middle of a session... When you've ordered a sundae... Kamloops had a provider using pics of very attractive asian ladies...when the door closed the provider was trans... This cowboy found out how fast he could turn a doorknob But that might just be me.