Am I being too worried ?

avatar Excitedoctopus 2026-08-21 22:55

Hello, I've been to this hobby for quite sometime now. I read reviews and visit only vetted AMPs and SPs. During most of my visits to AMPs, I feel anxious that what if someone walks in during session or some sort of legal verification going on. This ruins my mood and I focus on getting out fast though I have quite not hit my deed. When I read reviews from others about their experiences of having so much fun, I feel I am carrying too much baggage in my head amd not letting myself to relax. Whats the advice from my fellow pals?

avatar hello89 2026-08-21 23:59

Both of the two things u mentioned can happen

avatar masterpoonhunter 2026-08-22 06:11

You've been a perbite for 4 and 3/4 years and you're asking this? Maybe pooning is just not your thing?

avatar Bang4thebuck 2026-08-22 09:43

The risk adds to the thrill and is all part of the game.

avatar localguy 2026-08-22 17:22

Get a new hobby

avatar Forum mod 2026-08-22 17:30

If you cannot relax and enjoy yourself, this game likely isn't the best idea for you. If you let your fears rule your life, you will miss out on a lot of fun. You at least know you have a problem, but asking for help here isn't really going to change anything for you.

avatar Banged_Up 2026-08-22 19:45

Yea, I agree with Master P. You’ve been on here for this long and admittedly only see vetted providers as you say but not a single review? Where do you get the information to do the vetting? But you only give back by asking why you are overthinking something? How often do you hear about the donut squad, or anyone for that matter raiding AMPS? I heard about one, in Richmond a while ago. Otherwise the bulls don’t care about Johnny getting his rocks off at a rub n tug. They don’t care about the missing and murdered Indigenous women, they don’t care about the fentanyl crisis. Keep your nose clean, be grey, don’t fuck around and I bet you a dollar you will never see a cop while you’re getting your chicken choked.

avatar GeeBeeP 2026-08-23 02:37

It sounds like the problem is mainly with the AMP environment, not the hobby. Have you seen a well established indy SP in her private incall? Or a girl from an agency that uses condos? No one is going to walk in there asking for ID, so you might be more able to relax and enjoy yourself.

avatar Excitedoctopus 2026-08-24 22:05

Thank you all for the response. I can understand the crux of it.

avatar Tsubame 2026-08-25 02:48

I have been a little anxious regarding legal issues myself. However, logic says that Police busts just don't make sense. As long as nothing dangerous or otherwise criminal is happening, this is the safest option for everyone involved. In New West, Fraser Health does visit AMPs though. Probably a good thing.

avatar Lets Review 2026-08-25 03:10

Make sure they're really cops. [images (3).jpg]

avatar Larry's Torch 2026-08-25 03:47

Lets Review said: Make sure they're really cops. (snip) Click to expand... She looks legit. [img]

avatar PuntMeister 2026-08-25 23:14

Seems like a legit question to me. Ignore the criticism and suggestions you don’t belong. Idon’t think the Perbites have given you much useful advice thus far. Everyone deserves to enjoy their timecwith an SP, and you are not alone in your fear of reprisals or being busted. I empathize with those fears. For me. If I have done my homework and there is no evidence to suggest those fears will manifest on my planned soiree, then the moment I decide to book and commit to the session, I don’t look back. Of course I do look sideways when approaching an incall or AMP for any signs of surveilance or lurkeroos about, but once I step through the threshold of special pleasures, I leave my fears at the door and simply accept in advance the quality of the session and any weirdnesses that may occur. Like a whitewater kayaker going hard with the flow once committed to pushing of the ledge and entering the swirling thrill vortex. There will be much time for contemplation later. Savour the journey.

avatar take8easy 2026-08-25 23:34

I can understand where you coming from. I can also see a guy not enjoying with the fear or being caught ruining it for him. I am also the one who used to worry, in the beginning but then I realize that independent, reputable and well reviewed ladies are totally safe. I went to about three Asian places in the beginning and that was over ten years ago. Having said that, this forum is loaded with reviews of guys having fun at these places. To conclude, if it bothers you that much, just see independent girls. There are plenty of them with still reasonable price tags.

avatar masterblaster 2026-08-26 00:30

Always a chance of getting busted. Remember when Jack Layton got caught with his pants down in a Toronto massage parlour? Lol Although it was kept quiet for a number of years. Came to light during the 2010 election if I recall. Jack claimed smear campaign.

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