How long do you last?

avatar WandErection 2026-09-01 05:59

I recently learned that men, on average, report lasting 5.4 minutes having sex until they cum. I was a little surprised, as I always thought about it as something you can more or less control. Curious as to where this group sits...

avatar Bluesmile86 2026-09-01 06:52

To make it more complete and better aligned with the booking time, you should include 30, 45, 60 and 60+ mins options as well. Also for clarity, how long do you last on average, should say for straight/continuous banging.

avatar Big_Guy_Rye 2026-09-01 18:20

Bluesmile86 said: To make it more complete and better aligned with the booking time, you should include 30, 45, 60 and 60+ mins options as well. Also for clarity, how long do you last on average, should say for straight/continuous banging. Click to expand... Paying for MSOG should be a factor too. The excitement of visiting a provider tends to have someone shoot too early. I usually pay for the hour, and ask for MSOG extra if it's not a part of the main rate. I mean, sure you can whack off before seeing a provider, but seems kind of redundant, right? Spend the first minutes having her work out that first shot, get the nerves out of the way, follow it up with a few minutes of pillow-talk, then go for the main event until the clock runs out. So 5-10 minutes on the first shot, then 30-50 minutes shooting out the second. That said, even 15-30 minutes sessions, serve their purpose for one-pump chumps too...

avatar 80watts 2026-09-02 02:47

Well in the Harry Potter movies the Elder Wand lasted 8 moves (movies)... With or without viagra (spells of little blue pills) ...

avatar Larry's Torch 2026-09-02 13:15

I deal with DE (delayed ejaculation) so I'm in the 20 min + category. In relationships it can be pretty interesting, especially if your partner isn't used to it. Generally I've found that most women enjoy it for a bit, but then begin to think that they don't excite me enough in order for me to cum. This usually leads to some very frank conversations in order to explain WTF is going on. The majority of women have never heard of DE. To be clear; I'm not "pounding away" for hours, I've learned a long time ago that's only viable in porn. Not too many women like continuous sex (however, in my last serious relationship she was). I'd say it's not exactly a blessing, but not a curse either. In this industry/hobby I have always told the ladies about it and not to worry if i don't cum. I'm still enjoying myself. [(y)][:love:]

avatar Cock Throppled 2026-09-02 16:43

Big difference between regular sex with the same partner. Regular, but infrequent sex with the same partner. Or sex with a new partner, or partners. ...and the type of sex.

avatar sybian 2026-09-02 18:32

It takes me a minimum of a half hour...yes ive had complaints...

avatar Once you go black 2026-09-03 01:19

According to studies , the average length of time for a sexual experience in long term couples , ( like husbands and wives ) Including foreplay and intercourse , beginning to end , Is 10 - 15 minutes .

avatar Bridge 2026-09-03 02:16

Once you go black said: According to studies , the average length of time for a sexual experience in long term couples , Including foreplay and intercourse , begging to end , Is 10 - 15 minutes . Click to expand... Are they at the point of begging for it???

avatar Tsubame 2026-09-03 02:39

I am unfortunately a natural Johnny-Cum-Early I gave myself 6-15 as my hopefully most honest answer. I am all over the place though. When I had my first girlfriend, I lasted way longer on my first time than on my second. Maybe 20 minutes, then 1 minute or so. These days I tend to pre-game, by gooning, and sometimes a little alcohol. The AMP girls seem to be masters of me finishing just before the 30 minute booking ends. Bless their souls.

avatar GeeBeeP 2026-09-03 12:41

I’m still lucky to go more than once. Depending on the girl and the situation my first is pretty quick, but I recover fast too, and subsequent shots are likely in the 15 min range.

avatar bitchcuntypussy 2026-09-03 17:31

Average for me is probably 15-20 minutes. But sometimes the girl does some crazy move and I finish instantly. Then there's the opposite where the woman is bored or uninterested and banging her basically becomes a choir and it takes forever to finish.

avatar getmetothegreek 2026-09-03 17:50

30 mins some days, if it’s a new woman first time usually 30 seconds.

avatar Chef99 2026-09-03 18:27

GeeBeeP said: Interesting. I’m the opposite, a condom will delay things for me. Click to expand... Same!

avatar phool 2026-09-03 20:48

I'm a one-and-done shooter so I've practiced holding out and it's literally the best. In a 2-hour booking, I'll fight off 10-12 70% orgasms before I cum hard at the end and it's way more fulfilling to me than busting and waiting on my body to recoup for a second go. Allows me to stay in the pocket with provider when they're enjoying it too, resulting in some great sex and a litany of orgasms (while I'm battling my own internally).

avatar Mr. J 2026-09-04 01:55

Varies for me. Some days I can go for a good long while, but other days I'm like a boy that found his dad's stash of Playboy magazines (fast finish).

avatar Once you go black 2026-09-04 07:20

phool said: and it's way more fulfilling to me than busting and waiting on my body to recoup for a second go Click to expand... Agreed

avatar Once you go black 2026-09-04 07:21

bitchcuntypussy said: woman is bored or uninterested and banging her basically becomes a choir and it takes forever to finish. Click to expand... Agreed

avatar Once you go black 2026-09-04 07:24

Bridge said: Are they at the point of begging for it??? Click to expand... I personally can’t think of any couples I know that have been together any longer than 3 years that are “begging for it” .

avatar XOXO101 2026-09-05 23:20

Do you guys have any tips for lasting longer? I honestly don’t last that long. I will use delay sprays and those help but without them I finish really quick.

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