What do you guys do for a living to afford this?

Adiosmn607 said: Another thing I’ve been thinking about is that there are a few girls I’ve met through this hobby whom I genuinely like. I’d be interested in building something more with one of them, potentially even a relationship that could lead to more. But I’d also want a partner who supports my ambitions and is willing to contribute in some way, even if it’s just helping me make time for my sales business and grow it again. Could that possibly happen? Click to expand... lmao. no

tzfang said: I haven't seen any girl in the past 6 months. I felt like I needed to start a side hustle as a hobby. Otherwise, it's just too costly for any middle-class man. I haven't even explored any elite or higher-tier escorts. I also think the market downturn means I see fewer quality providers than before, because of the economy. One thing I want to mention is that emotional addiction is no joke. 99.9% of the time, this activity involves no real emotion or connection. She's just a good actress with a good work ethic most of the time. Click to expand... agreed on the work ethic part. some of them though genuinely enjoy the pleasure of the deed and seem to have a pretty high sex drive (kinda nympho lol) while most of them treat it like any other job and are all about professionalism and work ethic

I kinda wish I could find some part-time cash job to spend at AMPs. Less strain on the pockets, and less trail of bank withdrawls.

I have a white collar job. Pay is okay. Not enough to be playing more than once a month though when everything else is factored in. One lady put it very well, she said that you’re paying to see the best possible version of herself. Not sustainable in a relationship. There was also a comment that she would never date someone that was a client in this industry. I think a lot of ladies see it the same way. She might enjoy shooting the shit with you and maybe even hanging out off the clock. But don’t harbour the illusion that she’s going to want a long-term relationship with you. For a lot of ladies, this is how they earn a living. Are they supposed to give it up and become dependent on you in a relationship? Is that a recipe for happiness and satisfaction? Likely not. Lots of advice here already. Hope it helps you.

Sounds like you’re falling for a fantasy

I have an average salary, so I can only partake in these services like 4-6 times per year. I just save up what I can... but even if I could do more, I have other responsibilities. As for your pipe-dream of dating one of these providers... eliminate that thought and use a dating app instead. If the chemistry is good with a provider, take that a compliment but don't expect anything more as it's still a transaction (but hopefully one she enjoys, the same way you might enjoy hanging out with your favourite clients).

I really wouldn't recommend unless the two of you have clear set expectations of what you're looking for from each other and can provide a similar lifestyle. For context, for the past like 4 years or so the only girls that i have dated are SPs (all which have been reviewed on this board LOL) and currently as well. As harsh as it sounds, the biggest factor is money. I have a screenshot of her turning down a guy who would give her an allowance of $22k a month which she turned down. Reason being, "he was ugly so it wasn't worth dating him when I could just make that money myself". Not saying that this amount applies to every girl, there definately are excpetions, but, if we go back to your point. If she's making $300k a year + gifts/attention/perks etc... why would she leave that life behind to build a sales business with you? I know my claims sounds bullshit but DM for proof for any of the above lmao

Save your money and use POF. I get laid regular on that site by some very attractive women. Just be low key and talk to them with respect and they will rip your clothes off and give you the night of your life!!

FraserGuy said: Save your money and use POF. I get laid regular on that site by some very attractive women. Just be low key and talk to them with respect and they will rip your clothes off and give you the night of your life!! Click to expand... Off topic for a moment, but what age range are hooking up with there?

early 20's to 50's. Actually chatting with one right now and she want's me to come over to her place! As we speak!

FraserGuy said: early 20's to 50's. Actually chatting with one right now and she want's me to come over to her place! As we speak! Click to expand... whats sets POF apart from the more popular options i.e. tinder/bumble?

300/h on the medial higher side but that rate is way more than my rate. Calculated possibly how much could be made tax or not tax. I’m probably oversimplifying the overheads and emotional and mental state it takes. But a few years and I can retire.

I’m into the life for half a century and am flabbergasted 😲 by the rates now. I could afford it however I just say “No!” I’ve made some wonderful gal pals and they share their trials and tribulations with me about “The life” and I act as a sounding board. I’m, mostly, just making 🆕 friends these days and sharing war stories with some guy pals made over the last decade or so. From time to time I meet a lady hobbiest however, typically, refer them to others. The other thing is that I pretty well have to make an appointment with my cock to get a hardon so testosterone has plummeted. Meh 😒 I’m not gonna supplement my testosterone or take “The Pill” 💊 ta get a blue veiner. I’ve met some phenomenal persons in “The Life” and many I’ve kept in touch with for half a century. No regrets ❤‍🔥

FraserGuy said: Save your money and use POF. I get laid regular on that site by some very attractive women. Just be low key and talk to them with respect and they will rip your clothes off and give you the night of your life!! Click to expand... How on earth are you doing that? Everyone wants a relationship.

Booty_lover1952 said: How on earth are you doing that? Everyone wants a relationship. Click to expand... Most say they do in their profiles. Most really do want that. But lots need to get laid too while they search. And the search can take a long time. Trick is getting on their radar and under their skin. One smoking hot woman I just chatted a bit with until it was clear she wanted a relationship I couldn’t give her. Went silent for like 6 months then I messaged her out of the blue proposing a fuck buddy. Great fuck. Best tits ever. Better sex than any SP I’ve ever seen. Sadly that ended when she discovered sugar daddies.🎻 I’ve gotten lucky a couple times this way (not on POF) but not enough times to be able to figure out what I did that worked. Though I can say in both cases candid honesty and transparency were there.

Vlanvan said: Most say they do in their profiles. Most really do want that. But lots need to get laid too while they search. And the search can take a long time. Trick is getting on their radar and under their skin. One smoking hot woman I just chatted a bit with until it was clear she wanted a relationship I couldn’t give her. Went silent for like 6 months then I messaged her out of the blue proposing a fuck buddy. Great fuck. Best tits ever. Better sex than any SP I’ve ever seen. Sadly that ended when she discovered sugar daddies.🎻 I’ve gotten lucky a couple times this way (not on POF) but not enough times to be able to figure out what I did that worked. Though I can say in both cases candid honesty and transparency were there. Click to expand... Ha, is she from Poco?

Adiosmn607 said: I’m curious what everyone here does for a living to afford this hobby. And do the girls actually care what you do for work, or is that not really a factor for them? In the past, I was doing sales work that allowed me to afford most of this, but I’ve taken a break from it for a while. With a regular job, it’s not so easy to spend this kind of money consistently. The sales business eventually reached a stage where I needed a partner to help take it to the next level, but I haven’t been able to find the right person to move forward with. Another thing I’ve been thinking about is that there are a few girls I’ve met through this hobby whom I genuinely like. I’d be interested in building something more with one of them, potentially even a relationship that could lead to more. But I’d also want a partner who supports my ambitions and is willing to contribute in some way, even if it’s just helping me make time for my sales business and grow it again. Could that possibly happen? What do you guys do to afford this hobby long-term, and have any of you found that a girl you met through this scene was genuinely interested in building a life with you beyond the timed encounters? Click to expand... It’s easy if you position yourself to live rent free as I have done my entire life. Simply rent a house and ether put up some temporary walls to increase the number of bedrooms or buy a travel trailer to park on the rental property, as the lease holder you can increase the room rental to cover your costs.

Fortunately I'm independantly wealthy. You see, a number of years ago my parents and I were walking home from the theatre and we were robbed in an alley. Tragically both my parents were killed. I inherited eveything. My wealth allows me to patrol the streets at night in order to bring criminals to justice.

Larry's Torch said: Fortunately I'm independantly wealthy. You see, a number of years ago my parents and I were walking home from the theatre and we were robbed in an alley. Tragically both my parents were killed. I inherited eveything. My wealth allows me to patrol the streets at night in order to bring criminals to justice. Click to expand... Batman?!! [:unsure:]

LusciousLouis said: Batman?!! [:unsure:] Click to expand... Batman probably visits SPs 7 days a week.