How far in advance to book.

Very new to this. Pretty much popping a cherry so to speak. Curious how far in advance is reasonable to try and book an outcall. I have specific travel dates and opportunities for me rarely if ever come up. thanks Rusty

Rusty6971 said: Very new to this. Pretty much popping a cherry so to speak. Curious how far in advance is reasonable to try and book an outcall. I have specific travel dates and opportunities for me rarely if ever come up. thanks Rusty Click to expand... I recommend 2wks in advance if you have flexibility, but 1mo in advance if you have very specific dates. Additional factors that affect the availability of your chosen SP may include hotel location and how late in the night you're asking for. Good luck!

rinamood said: I recommend 2wks in advance if you have flexibility, but 1mo in advance if you have very specific dates. Additional factors that affect the availability of your chosen SP may include hotel location and how late in the night you're asking for. Good luck! Click to expand... Thank you. Very much appreciated.

Reputable indies like Miss Rina above can be trusted with a longer advance booking. I think cancellations are a huge issue for providers and shops so many do not take advance booking or will take you booking but it might not be secure.

Theres so much variability here. I find that if I book more than a day in advance, I get forgotten about or cancelled on or ghosted. Seems like most SPs prefer you book the day of. I much prefer to schedule in advance if possible.

If you are booking a reputable provider in advance, expect to pay a deposit. Some of those deposits could be sizable.

Forum mod said: If you are booking a reputable provider in advance, expect to pay a deposit. Some of those deposits could be sizable. Click to expand... Totally reasonable and appreciated as long as the agreed upon appointment time is honoured.

gianni lotus said: Totally reasonable and appreciated as long as the agreed upon appointment time is honoured. Click to expand... Exactly. I have no issue with a deposit. I Have to say the first time and only time I tried to arrange an SP I put down a deposit. Unfortunately the SP got injured, couldn’t make it and the deposit was returned. 😊

Forum mod said: If you are booking a reputable provider in advance, expect to pay a deposit. Some of those deposits could be sizable. Click to expand... Yet worth it. 😁😁

If you are booking a reputable companion—and I emphasise on reputable—who plans ahead, then it's never too early. The earliest I have booked someone is three months in advance.

goldeneye95 said: If you are booking a reputable companion—and I emphasise on reputable—who plans ahead, then it's never too early. The earliest I have booked someone is three months in advance. Click to expand... Thank you. Much appreciated. I have reached out to a couple independents but no reply’s as of yet. That said I’m sure some providers get more than their share of tire kickers.

Be very careful with deposits i would say dont do that at all , do you need it to be outcall ? why not incall and go with agency like coco or tempgfe ? if its a planned outcall with someone with no rep at all and no references its at least 1 week thing, just pick someone well known lots of reviews ideally. or you gunna get robbed dont ever pick french ladies or touring ladies though just my 2 cents

Okanaganguy1985 said: Be very careful with deposits i would say dont do that at all , do you need it to be outcall ? why not incall and go with agency like coco or tempgfe ? if its a planned outcall with someone with no rep at all and no references its at least 1 week thing, just pick someone well known lots of reviews ideally. or you gunna get robbed dont ever pick french ladies or touring ladies though just my 2 cents Click to expand... Thanks I appreciate the insight. In call is due to a long day of flying and meetings with a 24hr time window and just wanted to relax after instead of making a dash for the door. still weighing options.

Okanaganguy1985 said: Be very careful with deposits ... dont ever pick french ladies or touring ladies though just my 2 cents Click to expand... I need to respectfully disagree. Certainly be careful with deposits, and only go with reputable providers - I have not been scammed yet. But I see almost exclusively touring ladies, and 6 of them were French, and all were phenomenal. The big caveat is that most were also in the $500+/hr range, and none were outcall. I don't mind paying (and depositing) extra for beauty and legitimacy. To stay on-topic, I tend to book at least a week in advance to secure my preferred times and have something to look forward to.

I find same day booking work best for me, not because of anything, but things that are booked days in advance mean that I have had to reserve time. More often than not those scheduled times are subject to change or there's an urgent need to reschedule, or there's a delay minutes before im supposed to meet them at the incall. I find advanced booking leads to more flakiness, if I message a girl at 2 Pm and ask if she's available for a 4:00, she'll say yes because she is. Where a girl im booking with on Saturday for a Wednesday session will have an excuse to change the time, ask to reschedule or have a reason to be late. At least that has been my experience.

Rusty6971 said: Thanks I appreciate the insight. In call is due to a long day of flying and meetings with a 24hr time window and just wanted to relax after instead of making a dash for the door. still weighing options. Click to expand... Same boat with work trips, Rusty. With a fixed 24-hour window I'd do both: line up a reputable indie a week or two out like rinamood says, and keep an agency incall as plan B in case she has to cancel. Beats sitting in the hotel after a long flight with nothing sorted.

I'm new here as well, so popping a cherry and guys please let me know if I'm way out in left field here. Is asking for 24 hours to book an outcall a showstopper? It seems I lose a lot of attention if instant gratification is not granted....

There is a lot of variety whether short notice or advance booking works for clients and providers. Some like to book in advance, others same day, it’s all about finding the provider/client who matches your needs. Personally I prefer to book in advance when hosting in my hometown, as I have many personal and social obligations and a shared workspace that makes it more difficult to be available same day. But when I’m on tour, although I make sure to have most of my time booked before I commit to expensive travel costs, I’m always happy to fill any gaps in my schedule with short notice requests. There’s no wrong answer, a perfect lid exists for every pot!