WOT and abusive texts 604-373

Hello everyone "Ben" did not one but two no shows the last one was followed up with abusive comments about me being a dumb ho, wonderful! [img] [img] Xo Katey

[img] [img] And "Ben" is back with a new number and more harassment creeping on my perb ads. Curious if he has harassed any other perb members. Xo Katey

What SP's have to put up with. There are assholes, then there are idiot assholes, then there's this guy. What normal person gives a flying fuck what any SP chooses to charge? Can't you block the moron?

Ben's a pimp. "My woman charges $300 hr" Say no more.

SGTSLEUTH said: It’s a phone app number. Typical of the vitriol that comes from them. Google is your best friend, if it’s not Telus, Bell, Rogers, Fido or Globallive (Wind) don’t bother. Click to expand... I agree. The anonymity these fake number apps provide brings out the worst in people. I refuse to engage anyone on an app number anymore. I block them all. Saves a lot of wasted time and headache.

This guy sounds like a grade A asshole. How would she go about blocking app numbers? Is there a way to do so?

Katey, I am so sorry you have to deal with this guy

Jd69 said: This guy sounds like a grade A asshole. How would she go about blocking app numbers? Is there a way to do so? Click to expand... They just keep changing the number

SGTSLEUTH said: iOS has unlimited blocking, the calls/texts never show up and are actually blocked. Androids are a different story from what I know. You can filter messages out, but not totally block them. Please correct me if I’m wrong. Once again, it’s a smart idea to screen calls. Click to expand... You can block them, but it goes into a hidden folder you have to click several buttons to actually get to, so you can just block them and never check that hidden folder, and they will be forever blocked. It's also unlimited, and I have found the folder that actually stores all the blocked numbers too [:)] I like this feature much better because just in case I wanted to unblock someone, or see if they were still texting me, I could see. I'm a creep like that, so Android is perfect for me, I understand iOS is different, so I'd probably never use that. Call blocking is the same though, it blocks calls and you never have to know if they called, but the number storage file is there.

One thing I noticed is the lady kept engaging by replying to his texts. This just feeds the masochistic personality. He thinks he's getting to you and he thrives on the attention. Some deranged minds feed off of getting under your skin. This is how they get off, probably because they are impotent. My advice, and I'm not a psychologist but have dealt with a few psycho bitches over the years, as soon as things go sideways, cut off all communication with the individual. Resist the temptation to put him in his place, because if you do, you are feeding his fetish and he will continue to harass you as long as you engage him. Believe me, by continuing to resist communicating with him, this will drive him nuts as he needs you to respond to continue his fantasy. By cutting off all communication with him you will hurt him more than if you call him out.