Sean, Burnaby 604-3**-7828. Bullshit

The first 2 times he contacted me were both odd hours, but I still got ready to meet him... only to have him back out. The third time I honestly should have told him to fuck off but he seemed nice and I made the mistake of agreeing to an outcall at his place. I get ready and then he tells me "there are no cabs in the area" to take him to an atm. Then tells me that he makes it to one but can only withdraw part of the amount as he's reached his limit. After enough back in forth texting I made the unbelievably stupid mistake of agreeing to go there. The bank opened in less then 2 hours & I was under the impression he could pay me then. It's covid, I hadn't worked in a long time and I am crazy broke. When I arrived he paid for my cab. When I got out the first thing I noticed was that he obviously sent me a fake photo of himself. The guy is pretty heavy set. I then find out his buddy is there passed out on the couch. I almost didn't go in. He told me he had a sports injury before we met but it turned out to actually be an injury he got while freaking out in rage in his apartment because he has "ptsd from being in the military". He rold me he blacks out and is completely uncontrollable when he gets upset. I'd like to mention that he also wanted to role play impregnating me. We discussed at the very beginning that condoms were necessary and that I had an IUD. After that we didn't break character. He kept saying how we were having a baby and he even sent me a screenshot of someone's bank amount (with anything identifiable edited out of course), saying how our baby was taken care of. He was obsessed to the point that I was totally freaked out. (He actually lives off the government BTW). He was pretty aggressive when we entered his room. He was growling and grunting a lot. At this point I really wanted to.. and should have left, but I was a $60 cab ride from home, it was late, and I was desperate for the cash. I asked him to slow down, stop, back off, give me a second, and even pushed him back SEVERAL times when he fucked me. He was uncomfortably rough, growling like a wildebeest, and didn't care in the slightest if he was hurting me. The more I pushed, the tighter he grabbed on. Afterwards he spent a couple hours playing mind games with me while I tried to get paid. That awful feeling you get in your gut when someone tricks you or steals the cash, it's a disgusting feeling and it feels like rape. He just kept playing dumb or acting like he couldn't hear me, while insulting me to the point of tears. He was talking about morbid stuff while I kept telling him to stop (my boyfriend died recently & what he was saying was graphic and upsetting). When I told him that he laughed at me and told me to get over it, then continued his ranting while I tried to get ready and leave. The whole experience was depressing. Eventually I freaked out so he agreed to walk to the atm with me... while acting like he had no idea why I was upset and trying to leave. His passed out buddy woke up during my freak out and walked with us, during which he threatened to push me into oncoming traffic. When we got to the atm I was barely handed anything.. like a couple 20's, NOT EVEN CLOSE to what we originally agreed upon.. not to mention the hours wasted playing mind games. Then he told me that his mom won't give him anymore money (because he's addicted to coke), and that he had to wait until the next day before he would have more. I was exhausted and I felt like total shit. So in devastating defeat I agreed that he'd text me the next day and meet up. He obviously ghosted and I'm obviously not getting paid. His name is Sean. He's a 29 year old Caucasian male, around 6' tall and pretty fat. His left knee wears a brace from his injury and he walks like a jackass. His number is 604-**8-7828. And he lives in Burnaby in a gated community at 9233 Government st. I don't know his unit number as he enters and leaves from his patio on the ground floor. This is partially my fault for being so stupid, I know better and I'm angry with myself. Regardless, the guy is a manipulative liar, a catfish, a rapist, and in general just an all around revolting human being in every possible way. The attached photo is of the entrance to his patio, it's all I have and the selfies he sent were fake anyways (also they are no visible in the app). . [20200706_230649.jpg]

That is totally FUBAR! Sorry to hear about your shitty experience. You deserve nicer clients.

I think you should file a police report. He's eventually going to hurt someone badly. He broke a contract, possibly making this borderline rape.

not borderline, it is sexual assault... consent was dependent on payment...no payment...no consent....so sorry this happened to you. call me ( 604-671-2345} if you need anything, love susie

Girl, I’m so sorry this happened to you. The fact is that as a provider, you have to take certain precautions that you really shouldn’t even have to take. It’s not your fault. <3 hit me up if you need to talk.

Basicbitches said: The first 2 times he contacted me were both odd hours, but I still got ready to meet him... only to have him back out. The third time I honestly should have told him to fuck off but he seemed nice and I made the mistake of agreeing to an outcall at his place. I get ready and then he tells me "there are no cabs in the area" to take him to an atm. Then tells me that he makes it to one but can only withdraw part of the amount as he's reached his limit. After enough back in forth texting I made the unbelievably stupid mistake of agreeing to go there. The bank opened in less then 2 hours & I was under the impression he could pay me then. It's covid, I hadn't worked in a long time and I am crazy broke. When I arrived he paid for my cab. When I got out the first thing I noticed was that he obviously sent me a fake photo of himself. The guy is pretty heavy set. I then find out his buddy is there passed out on the couch. I almost didn't go in. He told me he had a sports injury before we met but it turned out to actually be an injury he got while freaking out in rage in his apartment because he has "ptsd from being in the military". He rold me he blacks out and is completely uncontrollable when he gets upset. I'd like to mention that he also wanted to role play impregnating me. We discussed at the very beginning that condoms were necessary and that I had an IUD. After that we didn't break character. He kept saying how we were having a baby and he even sent me a screenshot of someone's bank amount (with anything identifiable edited out of course), saying how our baby was taken care of. He was obsessed to the point that I was totally freaked out. (He actually lives off the government BTW). He was pretty aggressive when we entered his room. He was growling and grunting a lot. At this point I really wanted to.. and should have left, but I was a $60 cab ride from home, it was late, and I was desperate for the cash. I asked him to slow down, stop, back off, give me a second, and even pushed him back SEVERAL times when he fucked me. He was uncomfortably rough, growling like a wildebeest, and didn't care in the slightest if he was hurting me. The more I pushed, the tighter he grabbed on. Afterwards he spent a couple hours playing mind games with me while I tried to get paid. That awful feeling you get in your gut when someone tricks you or steals the cash, it's a disgusting feeling and it feels like rape. He just kept playing dumb or acting like he couldn't hear me, while insulting me to the point of tears. He was talking about morbid stuff while I kept telling him to stop (my boyfriend died recently & what he was saying was graphic and upsetting). When I told him that he laughed at me and told me to get over it, then continued his ranting while I tried to get ready and leave. The whole experience was depressing. Eventually I freaked out so he agreed to walk to the atm with me... while acting like he had no idea why I was upset and trying to leave. His passed out buddy woke up during my freak out and walked with us, during which he threatened to push me into oncoming traffic. When we got to the atm I was barely handed anything.. like a couple 20's, NOT EVEN CLOSE to what we originally agreed upon.. not to mention the hours wasted playing mind games. Then he told me that his mom won't give him anymore money (because he's addicted to coke), and that he had to wait until the next day before he would have more. I was exhausted and I felt like total shit. So in devastating defeat I agreed that he'd text me the next day and meet up. He obviously ghosted and I'm obviously not getting paid. His name is Sean. He's a 29 year old Caucasian male, around 6' tall and pretty fat. His left knee wears a brace from his injury and he walks like a jackass. His number is 604-**8-7828. And he lives in Burnaby in a gated community at 9233 Government st. I don't know his unit number as he enters and leaves from his patio on the ground floor. This is partially my fault for being so stupid, I know better and I'm angry with myself. Regardless, the guy is a manipulative liar, a catfish, a rapist, and in general just an all around revolting human being in every possible way. The attached photo is of the entrance to his patio, it's all I have and the selfies he sent were fake anyways (also they are no visible in the app). . View attachment 4648 Click to expand... holy shit what a fiasco dont beat urself up about taking him on... it sucks when u need money and it's still not ur fault for being so accepting and forgiving. how would u ever know hed be the shitball from hell. he sounds like hes got serious problems tbh it also sounds like physically this went very bad and he overstepped some huge boundaries. not paying ur due is one thing...but he also crossed the line physically ...I'm jus glad it didnt go any worse (tho what u experienced is bad enough) being run thru the ringer like u were can be depressing and being round those sorts of harsh vibes and completely sociopathic types will def make it worse... it jus rubs off something dark on u that's hard to shake. hope ur feeling better tho

Lastimo said: holy shit what a fiasco dont beat urself up about taking him on... it sucks when u need money and it's still not ur fault for being so accepting and forgiving. how would u ever know hed be the shitball from hell. he sounds like hes got serious problems tbh it also sounds like physically this went very bad and he overstepped some huge boundaries. not paying ur due is one thing...but he also crossed the line physically ...I'm jus glad it didnt go any worse (tho what u experienced is bad enough) being run thru the ringer like u were can be depressing and being round those sorts of harsh vibes and completely sociopathic types will def make it worse... it jus rubs off something dark on u that's hard to shake. hope ur feeling better tho Click to expand... So sorry that you went through all that. I think there were many red flags as you mentioned, but I think one unbreakable rule is that money should always be paid upfront and you should always feel comfortable. Just learn from this and I hope you something like this never happens again