To lube or not to lube

I have had a few sessions recently where the SP didn’t have lube, or claimed that they didn’t have lube. In both of these instances, it was the second time I had seen the SP. I have had this happen in the past, but in the past it was when I had seen the SP for the first time. Now, the first time with both of these now lube-less SPs was great: good connection, plenty of lube, you get the idea… Then, the second time, I get the line after the BJ that we can use spit because they have very little lube left or none at all. Of course, this has lead to work on my end where I ask if DATY is on the table to get things where they need to be, but I am told it isn’t necessary and it isn’t their thing really. So on to the deed and it ends up being okay for a bit and then stopping to get a sloppy BJ re-up or spitting on my cock. Ultimately though, the SP just opts to tell me to finish because they don’t want to go much longer. Has anyone else had this recently where the SP has lube the first go-round and then the second time is pulling this? I want to think it’s a coincidence but it feels deliberate to end the date early.

Lube is a working girls best friend. It’s a thing I never run out of. Lube, condoms and toys are my mainstays of a happy healthy sex life for money. I always have my silicone favorite and then if for whatever reason I run out of that, I have quite a few lube rejects (organic, ph balanced for her, cheap water based, super expensive whim, flavored, etc etc. you get the picture) to go through before I actually run out. It will take me months to run out of lube if I stop buying lube 🤪 It’s possible to run out of anything tho if you forget to pick it up from the store or if she had a busy day and didn’t have time to go out. It’s probably not on purpose.

I’ve never run out of lube. But I have definitely forgotten to bring it on tour once. Only once. 😂

VivaciousVivian said: I’ve never run out of lube. But I have definitely forgotten to bring it on tour once. Only once. 😂 Click to expand... I ran out of lube once, also never again 🤣 I double check how much is left in the bottle now and often bring an extra one just in case!

mckennalee said: I ran out of lube once, also never again 🤣 I double check how much is left in the bottle now and often bring an extra one just in case! Click to expand... I am so forgetful!! When I was a kid, my dad used to say “you’d forget your head if it wasn’t attached to your shoulders.” Probably true lol. I’ve forgotten so many things on outcalls and forgotten to bring things! These days I’ll go through a checklist and pack for my outcall with time to spare before I need to leave so I’m not packing in a rush 5 minutes before I need to leave lol. If I don’t shop with a shopping list I’ll get everything I don’t need and forget everything I do need! It only took most of my adult life to get a little organized 😜 The last thing I forgot on an out call was the rubber guards on my nipple clamps so now they’re only good if you like extreme nipple torture 🤪. I need to go get some new ones I guess lol

Harmony-bc said: my silicone favorite Click to expand... I’m curious if you mean silicone lube or if you’re referring to one of your toys. I’ve always been a bit aftaid to try silicone lube cuz I’ve heard it’s difficult to clean up.

Go Oilers Go!!

TerrR said: I’m curious if you mean silicone lube or if you’re referring to one of your toys. I’ve always been a bit aftaid to try silicone lube cuz I’ve heard it’s difficult to clean up. Click to expand... I’ve never had a problem cleaning up silicone lube. It’s so beautifully slippery and it doesn’t go sticky like water based lube. The only problem with silicone is it will mess up your silicone toys so put a condom on all your silicone toys to help protect them

What are your favorite lubes? Favorite brands.........hope thats allowed? I tried Astroglide liquid years ago. Super slippery, no mess and odourless/ tasteless. Tried a few others, but were horrible, so back to Astroglide. Apprehensive to try anything else .

Can it be possible that at times the chemistry and circumstances are sufficient enough to not require any lube during a session? Sometimes you catch a worker on ovulation day and or the foreplay is working.

lukom said: Can it be possible that at times the chemistry and circumstances are sufficient enough to not require any lube during a session? Sometimes you catch a worker on ovulation day and or the foreplay is working. Click to expand... I prefer this whenever possible! Circumstance/foreplay, cycle, chemistry all comes into play. Hydration, definitely a factor for me so time of day matters (easier later in the day). Sometimes, that bottle of lube ends up rolling away and never coming into play 😂

lukom said: Can it be possible that at times the chemistry and circumstances are sufficient enough to not require any lube during a session? Sometimes you catch a worker on ovulation day and or the foreplay is working. Click to expand... I’m super easy to turn on. I’m very comfortable with nudity and orgasms. I love to have fun. If a girl uses lube, it does not mean she’s not horny or naturally wet. Lube just adds to the fun. I use lube even when I’m masturbating all by myself.

Lube also reduces the chances of a condom breaking [:)] always use lube!

ExpCharlee said: Lube also reduces the chances of a condom breaking [:)] always use lube! Click to expand... Absolutely. As a client lube is part of a safe sex regimen just as much as condoms are. In addition to breaking lube also makes it less likely for the condom to slip off.

ExpCharlee said: Lube also reduces the chances of a condom breaking [:)] always use lube! Click to expand... GeeBeeP said: Absolutely. As a client lube is part of a safe sex regimen just as much as condoms are. In addition to breaking lube also makes it less likely for the condom to slip off. Click to expand... 2 other reasons why it’s never even occurred to me to work without lube. Don’t be offended by lube lol. It has nothing to do with how wet the lady is.

Astroglide

One of my atf SP’s uses a brand called Fuckwater. That my fiends is honesty in advertising 😊 It could not be any more direct.

GeeBeeP said: One of my atf SP’s uses a brand called Fuckwater. That my fiends is honesty in advertising 😊 It could not be any more direct. Click to expand... I love this one! The name always gives me a little mental giggle too. It's a water-silicone hybrid thats safe for toys and works well. Also a Canadian company I believe.

mckennalee said: I love this one! The name always gives me a little mental giggle too. It's a water-silicone hybrid thats safe for toys and works well. Also a Canadian company I believe. Click to expand... Omg that would be a game changer!! And I love the name. I’ll get that one next. 💕

mckennalee said: I love this one! The name always gives me a little mental giggle too. It's a water-silicone hybrid thats safe for toys and works well. Also a Canadian company I believe. Click to expand... If the lube has silicone in it, test it on old toy first, let it stand for 1-2 days. First rule: take manufacturers statements and test them.