Tipping Providers
Apologies if this already exists somewhere, I tried to search and couldn't find anything. I've been to see a number of providers now, and have had some amazing experiences, but I've not tipped before. Not because I'm cheap, but because I dont want to appear cheap; i have no idea what I'm supposed to be tipping! Is there a set %, like dining, that you should use? Is it more like $40 is sufficient on say a $400 session? Or is that insultingly low? Sorry for what may seem like an obvious thing to some, but I really want to show my appreciation, and not do more harm than good.
Tip whatever you feel like.
I feel the same way as you, mostly I’m new to it all, so not sure exactly how it all works. I always bring an extra $100 just in case, and then pay or add what I think is fair. I assume that the workers are generally undercharging because we’re all cheap 😅, so if it’s a good session, then I’ll pay what I think it was actually worth.
Ghghggb said: Apologies if this already exists somewhere, I tried to search and couldn't find anything. I've been to see a number of providers now, and have had some amazing experiences, but I've not tipped before. Not because I'm cheap, but because I dont want to appear cheap; i have no idea what I'm supposed to be tipping! Is there a set %, like dining, that you should use? Is it more like $40 is sufficient on say a $400 session? Or is that insultingly low? Sorry for what may seem like an obvious thing to some, but I really want to show my appreciation, and not do more harm than good. Click to expand... There is no set amount. Lots of people don’t tip at all $40 or $50 on $400 is just fine. The most I’ve ever been tipped was triple my rate. But I don’t think that was really a tip. It was more of a gift. The least I’ve ever been tipped was $5. Lots just tip by not having the exact amount.
You can definitely guarantee you’ll go high on her list & quicker to “ drop everything “ to make it work for you if you do , even an extra $20 says , hey you’re awesome ! I appreciate you 😎💋 but paying whatever she asks is perfectly acceptable. 👍🏻
Relevant threads: https://perb.cc/xenforo/threads/is-there-a-tipping-culture-and-how-does-it-work.376662/ https://perb.cc/xenforo/threads/donations-etiquette.364743/ You won't look cheap paying the rate without a tip, unless you say some weird things like "I wanted to tip but...."
Harmony-bc said: There is no set amount. Lots of people don’t tip at all $40 or $50 on $400 is just fine. The most I’ve ever been tipped was triple my rate. But I don’t think that was really a tip. It was more of a gift. The least I’ve ever been tipped was $5. Lots just tip by not having the exact amount. Click to expand... Opinion question as o am sure it varies between ladies In lieu of a tip is a gift of flowers or say a bottle of wine a favourable way to show appreciation? I know cash is cash, so in some cases I would expect ladies to just want that. with an ongoing regular I would think that a token can help establish more of a sense of appreciation, especially when it’s something they like or maybe even suggest. I want to believe that the rates are fair in their eyes and of course a tip is always nice, but less personal? After all we are rolling around naked together 😂 like to think of as 2 people and not “tipping my server” - if that sounds right. Idk. 😘
VRhound said: Opinion question as o am sure it varies between ladies In lieu of a tip is a gift of flowers or say a bottle of wine a favourable way to show appreciation? I know cash is cash, so in some cases I would expect ladies to just want that. with an ongoing regular I would think that a token can help establish more of a sense of appreciation, especially when it’s something they like or maybe even suggest. I want to believe that the rates are fair in their eyes and of course a tip is always nice, but less personal? After all we are rolling around naked together 😂 like to think of as 2 people and not “tipping my server” - if that sounds right. Idk. 😘 Click to expand... I don’t drink and some ladies might have allergies. I’m blessed to never have had any allergies and I love a pretty bouquet of flowers. I also have a sweet tooth. I also love money and gift certificates. But if somebody shows up with nothing, I’m also just happy to meet you
Read the links provided, this topic has been covered more than adequately.