Should I be doing more when with a provider??

avatar dchoye 2025-08-13 21:34

When I started seeing SP, I was really shy and just wanted to lay back and relax while she pleases me Now a bit more experienced I’m interactive and like to give and receive mutual pleasure I get hard and cum when I hear girls moan or show their pleasure by telling me how good it feels when I do a certain sexual act Everyone is a bit different on how they feel pleasure so communicating is important.

avatar malcolm1 2025-08-14 19:33

Find fs

avatar SmikeSmith 2025-08-14 21:40

80watts said: Did you cum 4X in the 1 hour? Did she cum 8X in the hour? I think if she cums more times than you, you succeeded. Click to expand... Now I feel bad, if that’s the math then they should be cumming 36 times and I can usually only get them to 31.

avatar 80watts 2025-09-14 19:14

Workout intensely the week before, situps, pushups, Vitamin intake, crunches, squats, long walks. Shave/wax pubic areas. Be Kind. Use mouthwash.

avatar angry anderson 2025-09-14 21:31

cardbore said: Hello yall, I've been going to parlours for a while now, and I think I'm fairly young (20) compared to a lot of yall on this board (sorry...) and so I am still a virgin. But anyways I was reading some of these reviews from like the blue shark guy and others and I was thinking, am I not doing enough? Like usually I like go in, shower, lie down, touch and finger her whilst I get massaged, then CBJ and HJ and then just talk and leave, but a lot of yall seem to be doing shit like massaging the girl, making her cum, daty, shit like that. Should I be doing that? Should I like ask a provider to teach me how?? This is also kinda important cause like eventually if I get with a not-provider I think it's important or something... Curious about yalls advice!! ...and obligatory GenZ: ts pmo icl so Kevin ngl Click to expand... Right off the bat, in your case I should say, fucking them.

avatar Once you go black 2025-09-14 23:43

Try what turns you on , if you’re not sure if something turns you on IRL or not then try it during an appointment. I like to communicate clearly in a friendly way pre appointment, If it’s my first time seeing someone , I Let the provider know everything that’s important to me and make sure she is ok w said acronyms. That way I feel more relaxed during , already knowing we’re on the same page . As far as prep I pretty much do all the same things as before a date or more specificity a date in which I am hoping things will go all the way . For me that includes the Hour before meeting up ( date or SP Appt ) being more relaxed chill time , as opposed to , say , rushing over from work racing the clock , as I fucking hate that feeling , & hate starting any interaction by bringing that energy w me

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