What makes a PSE session worth repeating?

ashley said: The deep ass fucking… the rimming, the deep throat … slime spits gaging on cock … face fuck atm atp I could go on.., Click to expand... I bet you got turned on just writing this comment!!

Islandboy10 said: I bet you got turned on just writing this comment!! Click to expand... didnt we all?[;)]

The definition of GFE and PSE is pretty loose. I’ve only seen a couple of providers that would fall into the PSE category as it’s not something I find very often where I live. But the high energy, “slutty/dirty mistress fantasy” and feeling my partner is uninhibited definitely gets me going even with a pretty vanilla list of acronyms. What really makes me want to repeat is a feeling of mutual chemistry (may not be real) in bed and personality-wise, a good kisser and above all else great oral (receiving , and someone who enjoys my tongue). For me a great bj is a sensual, teasing cock worshipping style bj, DT, BLS, licking, eye contact and feeling like she enjoys slowly devouring me. (Not high speed head bobbing). Now the real question is: is this type of bj GFE or PSE? Could be either or both, hah.

skycrush99 said: For me a great bj is a sensual, teasing cock worshipping style bj, DT, BLS, licking, eye contact and feeling like she enjoys slowly devouring me. (Not high speed head bobbing). Now the real question is: is this type of bj GFE or PSE? Could be either or both, hah. Click to expand... I agree! It could be both - really depends on the vibes. I do feel a bit uncomfortable when people ask me for PSE though because I'm not sure what difference in expectation there is, aside from whatever extras they're looking to add in 😳 So I ask and it's often either a CIM/CIMWS, or something else I do not offer at all (ie. ass to pussy, no condom change).

The problem is that SPs are in a business where people are going to ask for weird and whacky things. When you list some items in your menu, some people are going to attach imaginative things to that menu and ask questions. Years ago there were some SPs on Twitter, who complained online about people not reading their webpages, where the questions were already answered. More or less it was ranting about potential customers who couldn't fucken read.... Yes they were men bashing..... A SP's menu is inline with her prejudices and choices. By the very definition, a PSE is somehow wild and uninhibited.... But you can't cross those imaginary boundaries the SP has set for herself. You need communication there. Then men get into a rut...... The forebrain is turned off and boundaries will be pushed. And every one wants to get that last word in.....