Is there only one sexual position that you can orgasm in?

avatar LusciousLouis 2025-10-02 22:49

I'm in my 50s. The days of three-pump-Charlie and cumming multiple times in an hour are long behind me. Lately I've been sort of feeling sorry for the providers I see because it takes me a long time to finish, and sometimes I don't finish at all. One thing I've recently noticed is that I can't orgasm in any other position other than missionary even though I enjoy all the other positions immensely. Does anyone else have this issue? What about the females in the group? Is there any one position that gets you off more than others?

avatar Fiona 2025-10-02 23:33

Used to only be able to cum with me “ on top “ for the longest time but now lately I’ve been having some really hot “ doggy” gasms🙃 mostly with Greek & dp tho 😈💦💦💦

avatar LusciousLouis 2025-10-02 23:35

Fiona said: Used to only be able to cum with me “ on top “ for the longest time but now lately I’ve been having some really hot “ doggy” gasms🙃 mostly with Greek & dp tho 😈💦💦💦 Click to expand... When doing greek, I assume your fingers are busy massaging your vagina? Or is just the simple act of greek enough to make this happen?

avatar Harmony-bc 2025-10-03 00:15

LusciousLouis said: I'm in my 50s. The days of three-pump-Charlie and cumming multiple times in an hour are long behind me. Lately I've been sort of feeling sorry for the providers I see because it takes me a long time to finish, and sometimes I don't finish at all. One thing I've recently noticed is that I can't orgasm in any other position other than missionary even though I enjoy all the other positions immensely. Does anyone else have this issue? What about the females in the group? Is there any one position that gets you off more than others? Click to expand... Men being only able to orgasm in missionary is extremely common. I enjoy all of sex. I’m open to playing. It’s all fun but to have a really intense orgasm takes a bit of work sometimes. Sometimes I’m more sensitive and it’s easy.

avatar Pumped 2025-10-03 00:35

It's fairly common as us guys get older. I was reading an article recently about older women who were complaining that their partners took 'forever' to cum. Usual stuff -- see your doctor and make sure nothing else is going on; mix it up a bit and then finish in mish; just enjoy the ride!

avatar Fiona 2025-10-03 00:44

LusciousLouis said: When doing greek, I assume your fingers are busy massaging your vagina? Or is just the simple act of greek enough to make this happen? Click to expand... Both pussy & bum filled with plug/cock/dildo with a vibrator on my clit will have me climbing the walls in the very best way 😍

avatar LusciousLouis 2025-10-03 00:55

Harmony-bc said: Men being only able to orgasm in missionary is extremely common. Click to expand... But I used to be able to orgasm in all different positions. It's only recently that this has changed.

avatar Harmony-bc 2025-10-03 01:50

LusciousLouis said: But I used to be able to orgasm in all different positions. It's only recently that this has changed. Click to expand... You’re probably just less sensitive and missionary just has more intimacy and probably creates a different kind of friction. Plus it’s probably a bit easier to get into a steady rhythm than other positions might be

avatar grusse 2025-10-03 03:50

for me, depends on the girl...I recently had a lady hop on my face whilst pinning my wrists with her knees,grabbing my head with both hands and riding me like it was the Calgary Stampede. Nothing was anywhere near my member but I blew a load that might've touched the ceiling. There have been cpl times where I couldn't finish...nature of the game,maybe?

avatar 80watts 2025-10-03 03:55

Which hand makes you cum faster the right or the left?

avatar ChrisAYC 2025-10-03 04:02

Mostly mish and some variation of doggy (regular, standing, prone, etc). I find it hard to finish with oral only.

avatar masterpoonhunter 2025-10-03 04:54

Fiona said: Used to only be able to cum with me “ on top “ for the longest time but now lately I’ve been having some really hot “ doggy” gasms🙃 mostly with Greek & dp tho 😈💦💦💦 [/QUOTE Jesus Click to expand...

avatar LusciousLouis 2025-10-03 05:09

80watts said: Which hand makes you cum faster the right or the left? Click to expand... Can only use left hand. Right hand feels like Lizzo is in the room with me.

avatar LusciousLouis 2025-10-03 05:11

ChrisAYC said: Mostly mish and some variation of doggy (regular, standing, prone, etc). I find it hard to finish with oral only. Click to expand... Only two women have ever made me finish with oral. Not sure why.

avatar Crookedmember 2025-10-03 05:50

My ex used to say the only position she could climax in was when I was in the position of being someplace else.

avatar 80watts 2025-10-03 06:53

Ahhh, maybe you should of sent her a picture of you and a SP, proving that you were someplace else....

avatar Uncled 2025-10-03 14:49

80watts said: Which hand makes you cum faster the right or the left? Click to expand... I only use the left hand. The right hand is for operating the computer mouse.

avatar westwoody 2025-10-03 15:04

“Time makes fools of us all” - Bart Simpson Enjoy the ride, don’t worry about the finish. The journey is the destination.

avatar skycrush99 2025-10-03 16:18

I’m near the half century mark. I’m usually 1 and done in an hour but sometimes my 20 yo self comes out and 2 shots are possible. But often round 2 comes with thoughts about whether round 2 will end with me busting which is totally counterproductive! I’m on the other end of the spectrum … I’ve got a sensitive dick and/or my mind gets too stimulated and unless I take breaks I can easily lose it in any position or oral. Need to practice more kegals and sexual energy management. My physiology makes edging an exquisite experience especially if the lady is an expert in downshifting. I often wish I could last a longer during penetration for those ladies that enjoy a longer and vigorous fuck. Grass is always greener…. Woody said it best, try to not think about it and enjoy the ride.

avatar ted1977 2025-10-03 17:32

I find most women will cum the hardest from Greek. And the ones that say thats not true, have not had Greek done right. There is a way to do it the right way.

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