How do you present the donations?
PuntMeister said: The small, correctly sized envelope is important. I keep a little box of them from the dollar store in my glovebox. I also “Customize” each one with the $$$ amount on the front. Of course, I fun it up a bit by putting happy faces 😃 in the zeroes, or more recently, replacing the zeroes with hearts 💕. I kno, romantic huh? Also, the envelope remains unsealed, unless she’s a multi-year relationship—then I might put the hot wax seal on the back (with initials, but not a dick print) LOL. Click to expand... wait, now I want to receive a hot wax dick imprint envelope someday😍
mckennalee said: wait, now I want to receive a hot wax dick imprint envelope someday😍 Click to expand... That sounds like a very unique BDSM offering: “dick imprints and wax casts - take a memento of your painful/blissful experience with you when you leave.”
VinVan said: That sounds like a very unique BDSM offering: “dick imprints and wax casts - take a memento of your painful/blissful experience with you when you leave.” Click to expand... sounds so fun! are you interested? 👀 👀
mckennalee said: sounds so fun! are you interested? 👀 👀 Click to expand... I’m more of a top than a bottom, so we would have to find other uses for said wax….
VinVan said: I’m more of a top than a bottom, so we would have to find other uses for said wax…. Click to expand... It is my very firm belief that bottoming on occasion makes one a better top ☺
VinVan said: I’m more of a top than a bottom, so we would have to find other uses for said wax…. Click to expand... C’mon, man up and do the daring starfish wax print! Lol. 😝
im new to this but why in an envelope? whats wrong with taking the monies out of the genuine leather wallet ? Lul
jakeahegaolover said: im new to this but why in an envelope? whats wrong with taking the monies out of the genuine leather wallet ? Lul Click to expand... I like using an envelope because I can make sure in advance that the correct amount is in it. I'm a bit of a klutz and have been known to miscount or have bills stick together if I am retrieving the money from my wallet.
The Bank transaction. You count it to your self. Then count it as you give it to the SP.......
Place it on the island before leaving
Uncled said: A bag of loonies and toonies. View attachment 138806 Click to expand... so that was you who paid me in rolls of toonies and loonies way back ! personally. I prefer cash in hand or stuffed into a gift. Envelopes are one more thing to recycle or they get ripped up and thrown out immediately.. I understand that passing over cash may feel more transactional, but it is a transaction. Profit’s not a dirty word.
I usually do the envelope with the donation inside, but I do at times get creative and fun if I have good chemistry with the lady. Example: I had the donation and put it in my teeth, and she gave a sly smile and seductively took it.
Mr. J said: I usually do the envelope with the donation inside, but I do at times get creative and fun if I have good chemistry with the lady. Example: I had the donation and put it in my teeth, and she gave a sly smile and seductively took it. Click to expand... Do you know how dirty money is?[:)]
jgg said: Do you know how dirty money is?[:)] Click to expand... Yes, but not as dirty as my imagination.
LADY-LYRAH said: personally. I prefer cash in hand or stuffed into a gift. Envelopes are one more thing to recycle or they get ripped up and thrown out immediately.. I understand that passing over cash may feel more transactional, but it is a transaction. Profit’s not a dirty word. Click to expand... 1000 times this. Im a bit of a hippie in some areas. My parents instilled reduce, reuse, and recycle into my head as a kid. An envelop (which I of course gladly accept without complaint) does feel wrong. I’d rather we reduce as I don’t have a reason to reuse the envelopes and recycling is such a chore. There is absolutely nothing wrong with cash. The envelop started in the USA where all of sex work is a crime. Putting it in an envelop and not handing it directly to the lady could be seen as a gift. But ladies still got arrested with the envelop. So just hand over the cash! 😘🤪
Harmony-bc said: 1000 times this. Im a bit of a hippie in some areas. My parents instilled reduce, reuse, and recycle into my head as a kid. An envelop (which I of course gladly accept without complaint) does feel wrong. I’d rather we reduce as I don’t have a reason to reuse the envelopes and recycling is such a chore. There is absolutely nothing wrong with cash. The envelop started in the USA where all of sex work is a crime. Putting it in an envelop and not handing it directly to the lady could be seen as a gift. But ladies still got arrested with the envelop. So just hand over the cash! 😘🤪 Click to expand... I still prefer the envelope, as the $$ is precounted so I don’t screw it up, neat and tidy. However if recycling is an issue I’ll happily take the envelope back from you and use it the next time [:)]
[1761584976728.jpeg] In moneygami form
GeeBeeP said: I still prefer the envelope, as the $$ is precounted so I don’t screw it up, neat and tidy. However if recycling is an issue I’ll happily take the envelope back from you and use it the next time [:)] Click to expand... That also makes sense. It is neat and tidy. I don’t mind recycling. But I have a drawer of envelopes right now 😭. Taking it back to reuse next time is such a great solution 💕💕💕
Who knew it was so complicated? I just put the correct amount in my wallet ahead of time, with an extra bill for a tip, if warranted, and count it out on arrival. I once used an envelope and it felt as stupid and pointless as using colours to describe amounts.
Yeah, I don't know you guys, cash is king, cash, no wrapping, just cash. I have never had an SP give me shit for providing cash, have never had one be disappointed or have a less than desirable session because I gave her MONEY.