Party Friendly???

avatar SSL Management 2025-12-01 17:50

Not too long-ago advertising “Party Friendly” was nonexistent on Perb. However, lately a few ads are popping up on Perb advertising that they are “Party Friendly.” In the past advertising “Party Friendly” was considered a huge red flag and those that advertised being “Party Friendly” were to be avoided. Has something changed to make it more acceptable to advertise “Party Friendly” here on Perb? As a client, would an ad advertising “Party Friendly” stop you from seeing the advertiser, or have things changed to where it no longer matters. Curious as to your thoughts. SSL

avatar rinamood 2025-12-01 17:56

I tried searching "party" in both indie and agency ads in Vancouver, and only 1 ad from Spring this year came up as "party friendly". I do recall mods taking action when someone had advertised an offer of some form of viagra as an extra, so I would assume that any offer of drug use to be removed as an extension of forum rule 10: 10. Posts alleging BBFS, substance abuse or health issues will not be permitted.

avatar GeeBeeP 2025-12-01 19:22

Party Friendly is still a huge red flag for me, and yes it will definitely stop me from seeing an otherwise attractive SP. Having said that I have to agree with Rina, I can’t recall seeing many PERB ads in my area which use the phrase. LL on the other hand ... [:rolleyes:]

avatar carvesg 2025-12-01 19:41

Red flag and alarm bells

avatar masterpoonhunter 2025-12-01 20:57

Full stop, don't even finish reading the ad.

avatar SSL Management 2025-12-01 21:48

rinamood said: I tried searching "party" in both indie and agency ads, and only 1 ad from Spring this year came up as "party friendly". I do recall mods taking action when someone had advertised an offer of some form of viagra as an extra, so I would assume that any offer of drug use to be removed as an extension of forum rule 10: 10. Posts alleging BBFS, substance abuse or health issues will not be permitted. Click to expand... Did not mean to suggest there were many. But it used to be none. https://perb.cc/xenforo/search/22143312/ SSL

avatar rinamood 2025-12-01 21:53

SSL Management said: Did not mean to suggest there were many. But it used to be none. https://perb.cc/xenforo/search/22143312/ SSL Click to expand... You're right, it should definitely be none! 👏

avatar MB Mod 2025-12-02 00:09

If you see them report them and they’ll be edited or removed. I usually only check ad’s for supporting member status.

avatar jgg 2025-12-02 00:18

It's an automatic pass on party-friendly. I haven't seen it in ads here, but it's sometimes referenced on the provider's social media.

avatar Equity Market investor 2025-12-02 00:50

I know of the SP ad on Perb you are referencing. When I viewed her ad, the same crossed my mind. We all know by now what " Party friendly " means. For me personally, I don't partake in anything related to that so, it's definitely a strong pass !! SSL Management said: Not too long-ago advertising “Party Friendly” was nonexistent on Perb. However, lately a few ads are popping up on Perb advertising that they are “Party Friendly.” In the past advertising “Party Friendly” was considered a huge red flag and those that advertised being “Party Friendly” were to be avoided. Has something changed to make it more acceptable to advertise “Party Friendly” here on Perb? As a client, would an ad advertising “Party Friendly” stop you from seeing the advertiser, or have things changed to where it no longer matters. Curious as to your thoughts. SSL Click to expand...

avatar MB Mod 2025-12-02 01:26

The snow flake is always a giveaway.

avatar MB Mod 2025-12-02 01:48

MB Mod said: If you see them report them and they’ll be edited or removed. I usually only check ad’s for supporting member status. Click to expand... Allow me to clarify, if the ad says that BBFS and party friendly are not available there is no need to report the post.

avatar 80watts 2025-12-02 12:15

I'm resisting the urge to post about "free speech"....... its a touchy subject for some people.....

avatar GeeBeeP 2025-12-02 15:28

80watts said: I'm resisting the urge to post about "free speech"....... its a touchy subject for some people..... Click to expand... I would agree to a certain extent, however sex work can already be a semi grey area. Advertising a clearly illegal activity isn’t free speech, it’s just stupid. Kudos to the mods for keeping an eye out and policing the issue.

avatar carvesg 2025-12-02 15:39

80watts said: I'm resisting the urge to post about "free speech"....... its a touchy subject for some people..... Click to expand... On a government forum or well known public forum definitely but we can't expect free speech on a private forum/website . Perb has to promote or keep the messaging on the well known healthy behavior path ( well semi healthy at times ) otherwise they might be red flagged and scrutinized.

avatar Cock Throppled 2025-12-02 16:29

Is there an exact definition of party friendly, or does it just mean any drug, or any hard drug? It's surprising how many LL ads say PF. I assume "snow bunny" means cocaine, and not an avid skier?

avatar Sheen 2025-12-02 16:48

Red flag for me and will avoid.

avatar GeeBeeP 2025-12-02 18:58

Cock Throppled said: Is there an exact definition of party friendly, or does it just mean any drug, or nay hard drug? It's surprising how many LL ads say PF. I assume "snow bunny" means cocaine, and not an avid skier? Click to expand... Well I’m pretty sure it doesn’t involve Karaoke or piñatas [:)] And some Sp’s are avid skiers and look hot in their apres ski tot tub pics, but your’re probably right. I’ve always assumed party friendly means a hard drugs, most often the Peruvian marching powder but it could be more nowadays. Weed is a different story and the simple 420 friendly in advertising is obvious.

avatar Bang4thebuck 2025-12-03 01:51

As soon as I see those words, i'm out. Even if she just looks like a drug addict, i'm out. Not taking any chances.

avatar Ratbert_2008 2025-12-03 07:37

carvesg said: On a government forum or well known public forum definitely but we can't expect free speech on a private forum/website . Perb has to promote or keep the messaging on the well known healthy behavior path ( well semi healthy at times ) otherwise they might be red flagged and scrutinized. Click to expand... Perb isn't fully private. For example, Google clearly indexes the contents of the site: [party.jpg]

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