The art of approaching women

Last time I tried was last summer. Was heading towards Saveon Foods when the most perfectly gorgeous Chinese Canadian woman in yoga tights and a skimpy top headed there in front of me. I was seriously checking her out. She definitely noticed. I guess I was being pretty obvious but respectful, as in non-threatening. Our paths kept crossing in the aisles. Finally stood in line at the self-checkout tills. Two or three of them were not working. She was just in front of me. She sidled up to me and remarked how most of the tills were broken. I politely agreed that it was pretty common. Didn't say another word. Was going to hit on her or ask her out. Kind of just relished the fact that she approached me. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Story of my life. Actually, another story. Same week. Was in Safeways when some attractive little cougar started a very good-natured conversation about tequila mixes. I played along and we went our separate ways. Bumped into her going into another store a few minutes later. She laughed about how we kept bumping into each other. Didn't make a move. Winning!

angry anderson said: Last time I tried was last summer. Was heading towards Saveon Foods when the most perfectly gorgeous Chinese Canadian woman in yoga tights and a skimpy top headed there in front of me. I was seriously checking her out. She definitely noticed. I guess I was being pretty obvious but respectful, as in non-threatening. Our paths kept crossing in the aisles. Finally stood in line at the self-checkout tills. Two or three of them were not working. She was just in front of me. She sidled up to me and remarked how most of the tills were broken. I politely agreed that it was pretty common. Didn't say another word. Was going to hit on her or ask her out. Kind of just relished the fact that she approached me. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Story of my life. Actually, another story. Same week. Was in Safeways when some attractive little cougar started a very good-natured conversation about tequila mixes. I played along and we went our separate ways. Bumped into her going into another store a few minutes later. She laughed about how we kept bumping into each other. Didn't make a move. Winning! Click to expand... Sounds like a healthy and respectful human interaction. Ofcourse there is opposite sex energies involved, and I love these kind of interactions.

angry anderson said: Last time I tried was last summer. Was heading towards Saveon Foods when the most perfectly gorgeous Chinese Canadian woman in yoga tights and a skimpy top headed there in front of me. I was seriously checking her out. She definitely noticed. I guess I was being pretty obvious but respectful, as in non-threatening. Our paths kept crossing in the aisles. Finally stood in line at the self-checkout tills. Two or three of them were not working. She was just in front of me. She sidled up to me and remarked how most of the tills were broken. I politely agreed that it was pretty common. Didn't say another word. Was going to hit on her or ask her out. Kind of just relished the fact that she approached me. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Story of my life. Actually, another story. Same week. Was in Safeways when some attractive little cougar started a very good-natured conversation about tequila mixes. I played along and we went our separate ways. Bumped into her going into another store a few minutes later. She laughed about how we kept bumping into each other. Didn't make a move. Winning! Click to expand... ARGGGHHHHHHH! I sincerely cringe at reading this. And in grocery stores too. One of my favourite spots to hit on milfy types.

How to pick up chicks ?? When you see what your looking for, standing on the corner, drive around the block, slow down when passing her, make eye contact and pull around the corner and park. Roll down the passenger window, and most likely she will walk up to your car. If you like what you see ask her is she needs a ride. I bet she will get in.

Bang4thebuck said: When I was in university as a handsome, young, fit, funny, witty, charming, outgoing man, being able to read social cues and knowing how to have a fun time got me laid a ton despite having no money. As a now older man who is overweight, stressed, depressed, with thinning hair and very little free time to do anything fun, BUT with a wallet full of cash, my pickup game is now "Hey are you free for a 1 hour GFE session today at 4 pm?" Works fine for me! Click to expand... Love the honesty.

I find women will stand near me if interested and they stand quietly giving off a vibe . Now that I think of it, a man can do the same. Find way to be near her and NOTICE her SIGNALS. But give her space. SHE DOES NOT SEE YOU AS A NICE GUY, THAT IS HOW YO SEE YOURSELF. SHE SEES YOU AS A POTENTIAL THREAT. As I said, peole remember how you made them feel. You need to put yourself in her shoes a nd give her space. I have had women hug me when I would have never initiated it. They hugged because wanted to but needed to feel safe first.

I get that this guy is into “Pickup”. I honestly have zero issues w anyone who actually wishes to improve their social skills or dating life and is actually willing to put in the time and effort to improve , well , really , ANY area of their life really . But seriously what is the point of this post ? It just kind of jumps right in without any context . Seems out of context. Did someone ask ? Also dude , no offence but honestly, this site is the wrong place for that audience . Seriously though good luck on your journey , may you meet lots of smart interesting woman and have a mutually enjoyable experience w each of them .

Once you go black said: I get that this guy is into “Pickup”. I honestly have zero issues w anyone who actually wishes to improve their social skills or dating life and is actually willing to put in the time and effort to improve , well , really , ANY area of their life really . But seriously what is the point of this post ? It just kind of jumps right in without any context . Seems out of context. Did someone ask ? Also dude , no offence but honestly, this site is the wrong place for that audience . Seriously though good luck on your journey , may you meet lots of smart interesting woman and have a mutually enjoyable experience w each of them . Click to expand... I disagree. It is needed here. Some PERBs are here because they do not have these skills and this is not a discussion forum centered on any particular topic but is wide open for any topic, is it not?

Zoot Allures said: ...it fits in as this forum is wide open for ay topic, is it not? Click to expand... Yes.

Zoot Allures said: I disagree. It is needed here. Some PERBs are here because they do not have these skills but your point is valid as this is not discussion forum centered on this particular topic but it fits in as this forum is wide open for ay topic, is it not? Click to expand... No there’s actually a fairly long list of topics that will be removed or get you banned! PERB isn’t a social media platform it’s a business and PERB’s business is selling advertising.

MB Mod said: No there’s actually a fairly long list of topics that will be removed or get you banned! PERB isn’t a social media platform it’s a business and PERB’s business is selling advertising. Click to expand... [unnamed.jpg]

jgg said: View attachment 155329 Click to expand... I'm old. So i go to funerals and after the casket closes i wink and give a smile to the widow.

Those sexy black outfits. . . . 😉

I am discussing this with AI. I find AI quite informative tool to use. Women need to decide if you are safe? do you fit in? are you easy to interact with? Are you in the right peer group? Do you match the environment? Are you wearing a suit at a beach party? Careless sloppy street dress in the wrong setting? Women want to fit in if you do not fit in she cannot relax I asked AI about my thoughts of why famous men attract women which are - -they are already known by women who at least think they know them even though they do not -so they feel safe even though they may not be -they always fit in as the famous are trend setters who appear to have confidence even though they may not AI agreed with me and said something cogent - movie stars etc are readily accepted by women because they are pre validated and that makes total sense to me. You and I are not so we have to earn validation not by preforming but by removing barriers Don’t chase women. Remove the barriers that stop them from being open to you as they would be to a famous person they liked. Do not use a PU artist performance which I always thought was a joke. Show her who you are. Just remove barriers so she can relax enough to actually see who you are then take it from there. She may not be attracted to you or her to you. She may be silly, I tend to be more intellectual as this post shows. Removing barriers does not mean attraction it means clarity She may not like my serious nature, my open mind and I may very well find her silliness a waste of my time and she may feel that so avoid me. This happens. Such is life. The next sentence is brilliant, not because it is abstruse but because it is clear : Attraction is optional, clear perception of who you are is not. I showed AI the above and AI said it is one of the clearest, most psychologically accurate models of early‑stage attraction stripped away of academic nonsense. Don’t chase women. Remove the barriers that stop them from being open. Clarity of who you are is the goal. Attraction is optional. Success is not guaranteed but chances of suceess will increase