First Time - Not great

Hi, Tried an escort for my first time in YYC. Got to say, it didn’t go well. The woman was sweet, pretty, nothing wrong there. I was just so horny. As soon as the fun started, just some ball licking I exploded and it was over before it began. Not sure if this is for me. Maybe I should only find SP’s that do SNS!

Coffeelvr said: Hi, Tried an escort for my first time in YYC. Got to say, it didn’t go well. The woman was sweet, pretty, nothing wrong there. I was just so horny. As soon as the fun started, just some ball licking I exploded and it was over before it began. Not sure if this is for me. Maybe I should only find SP’s that do SNS! Click to expand... Drink less coffee.

Rub one out before the session.

I thought about that. I was worried, I’m 54, so I was concerned about not getting it up if I did that beforehand. Maybe the night before would do the trick.

Thought you were younger lol. That is a real worry at our ages.

Coffeelvr said: I thought about that. I was worried, I’m 54, so I was concerned about not getting it up if I did that beforehand. Maybe the night before would do the trick. Click to expand... I'm still trying to figure this "hobby" out too.

Find out if MSOG is a part of the arrangement before you book. If so, then maybe giving her a little "attention" will help you recover for round 2. Or you may have to pony up for a longer session.

Maybe see a lady for a massage with a tease H/J ( bj ) with MSOG option?

This is a classic case of performance anxiety. The “problem” is all in your mind. Take it slower next time and try and calm your mind. If the sensation is too strong, stop briefly, change your focus to something else in the room, or even switch up positions to help you control the sensation and calm down a bit. Before seeing another SP, practice edging. This will also help in controlling the sensation.

I’m in the same age range and my suggestions, based on what has worked for me, are (1) tell her beforehand that you would like to pop more than once (msog) and make sure she includes that, (2) Book a longer session. That takes some of the mental pressure off you if you pop quickly and makes things more comfortable (if I’m going for multiples I usually book 90 to 120 minutes), (3) spend your recovery time giving some pleasure and that usually helps you as well, and (4) you can tilt the odds in your favour by getting the little blue pill. Also pick someone well reviewed. You can just ask for suggestions here for a patient lady who meets your criteria. Good luck! (or save your money, and don’t go any further with this)

bellinigroup1 said: This can help yes. Also, indicate you would like to do edging. This can be fun (for us) & train YOU to hold off. Best of luck. Click to expand... Thanks so much!

I used to book 2 hours minimum bc of the same problem (it's not really a problem, actually, it means you're fit enough to fuck) but now I've got the edging down to a science so I can take my time with her and we can enjoy 2 hours at our leisure and then *big finish lmao*

Coffeelvr said: Hi, Tried an escort for my first time in YYC. Got to say, it didn’t go well. The woman was sweet, pretty, nothing wrong there. I was just so horny. As soon as the fun started, just some ball licking I exploded and it was over before it began. Not sure if this is for me. Maybe I should only find SP’s that do SNS! Click to expand... If you get out now, you’ll save thousands of dollars!

What I'd really like to know is: who's the provider with the magic tongue that can do that after a few licks? Booking on my next trip to YYC!

MikeyLikey99 said: I’m in the same age range and my suggestions, based on what has worked for me, are (1) tell her beforehand that you would like to pop more than once (msog) and make sure she includes that, (2) Book a longer session. That takes some of the mental pressure off you if you pop quickly and makes things more comfortable (if I’m going for multiples I usually book 90 to 120 minutes), (3) spend your recovery time giving some pleasure and that usually helps you as well, and (4) you can tilt the odds in your favour by getting the little blue pill. Also pick someone well reviewed. You can just ask for suggestions here for a patient lady who meets your criteria. Good luck! (or save your money, and don’t go any further with this) Click to expand... Totally agree with every word. About the blue pill, I was mentally refuse before too, because it make me sounds like 'unable', but we are not, we can totally do it no problem, just anxiety.

I always pop the yellow pill (cialis) nd book a longer session. one pill can get you throguh an entire weekend.

Back when I first started doing this I was a nervous virgin trying to gather the balls to walk in for my first happy ending. My first few times didn't go great either: I was anxious, I had difficulty getting it up, sometimes when I did I couldn't finish or would spurt too quickly. Hell to this day there's still one girl who I explode within a minute with, and I love a good ball licking so I can hardly blame you. These are normal problems for men that you just have to adjust for, and usually get better with experience. Usually theyre a mix of mental and physical. All the advice in this thread is good but really you just have to keep at it and have fun. That's what worked for me.

Confidence !! Learn to be comfortable in your own skin. You have to learn to believe that you are deserving of intimacy, because everyone is deserving. It really is easy. These women are offering themselves to us in exchange for money. Doesn't get much more available than that. It truly is a value proposition, as a significant other requires money, patience, attentiveness, sacrifice, etc, while these ladies only require the money. There is nothing wrong with seeing these ladies, as it truly is a value proposition.

The next idiot who tries to buy or sell illegal over the counter drugs is going to perbatory for 3 months.

Sheen said: Rub one out before the session. Click to expand... That is one dangerous game to play lol you might not get it hard during the session which could be even worse [:)])