Has an SP ever insulted you before?

avatar Tt69 2026-06-27 19:19

I did have an sp pat my belly and then she stood beside me and compared her very fit and perfectly toned flat stomach to mine and she laughed. I wasn’t really insulted though but just wondered why. Then I paid an sp for full service but once my Mr. Happy got going she said it was too big for FS which really disappointed me. I’ve had some providers say I’m big but I’ve always believed they were just trying to flatter me. I haven’t seen a provider since that. I was actually more comfortable with the belly slap because yes I could lose some weight.

avatar happycanuck99 2026-06-28 01:02

I once saw an Asian provider through an agency. I was taking longer that she liked and she asked "too fat to cum?" Yeah, that helped. 😅🤣

avatar The_Lionheart 2026-06-28 02:01

carvesg said: Maybe you could call that statement a xenophobic thing... Let's not go there. In every culture there are people who lack social skills or awareness.... sometimes it can be exhaustion, sugar level or frustration from personal problems affecting the day to day behaviour. Click to expand... I'm just saying I have met a LOT of stuck up French Canadian women over the years. Many are not very nice people.

avatar phool 2026-06-28 02:03

The_Lionheart said: I'm just saying I have met a LOT of stuck up French Canadian women over the years. Many are not very nice people. Click to expand... I've had the complete opposite reaction with the Quebecois girls. More standoffish have been the Toronto providers IMO. Everyone will have their biases based on experience tho.

avatar masonjar 2026-06-29 21:58

westwoody said: I have done weekends and 2 week-long trips, but only with ladies I know well. Nobody should risk longer dates with someone they have never met, no matter what any reviews say. Click to expand... Hell, I don't risk that with a woman I don't yet know, even if it's free.

avatar masonjar 2026-06-29 22:00

The_Lionheart said: I'm just saying I have met a LOT of stuck up French Canadian women over the years. Many are not very nice people. Click to expand... I think they just speak what's on their minds more freely. More honest. I don't mind to be told it once in a while.

avatar nwtl 2026-07-03 22:10

YYC said: She then started calling me fat, ugly, gross and stupid. Maybe I was the first three but I wasn't stupid. Click to expand... This sounds a lot like what most immature guys do to women these days online right after they get turned down for a date!

avatar HunkyBill 2026-07-09 06:42

Unless you're really good looking young buck or even an older fit/athletic dude, then most guys in this hobby have been insulted in some way. After a long illness, I returned to this hobby and went to see one of my regulars and she said "what happened to you?". After explaining, she told me she gets turned off by unfit guys. Age is not a problem for her but if the guy isn't fit, then service ultimate suffers. And this isn't the first time this happened either. Growing old sucks!

avatar masonjar 2026-07-09 22:57

Growing old sucks regardless....

avatar Larry's Torch 2026-07-10 01:53

HunkyBill said: Unless you're really good looking young buck or even an older fit/athletic dude, then most guys in this hobby have been insulted in some way. After a long illness, I returned to this hobby and went to see one of my regulars and she said "what happened to you?". After explaining, she told me she gets turned off by unfit guys. Age is not a problem for her but if the guy isn't fit, then service ultimate suffers. And this isn't the first time this happened either. Growing old sucks! Click to expand... Wow! That"s a good way to lose a long term, regular customer! I think I would've walked at that point; especially after you explained what had happened. Pretty insensitive.

avatar jgg 2026-07-10 04:34

Not growing old sucks more...

avatar Newuser505 2026-07-10 05:15

HunkyBill said: Unless you're really good looking young buck or even an older fit/athletic dude, then most guys in this hobby have been insulted in some way. After a long illness, I returned to this hobby and went to see one of my regulars and she said "what happened to you?". After explaining, she told me she gets turned off by unfit guys. Age is not a problem for her but if the guy isn't fit, then service ultimate suffers. And this isn't the first time this happened either. Growing old sucks! Click to expand... What a stupid thing to say. Youre a source of income, not her fuck buddy.

avatar islander1-1 2026-07-12 04:06

YES... But not to my face.... to one of her other clients.

avatar phool 2026-07-12 04:58

islander1-1 said: YES... But not to my face.... to one of her other clients. Click to expand... The insult notwithstanding, talking about other clients is such a shitty thing for a provider to do.

avatar sooner 2026-07-13 11:50

My tattoo. She went "Oh that's cute" and smirked kinda. There is nothing cute about it.

avatar Sean/Pen 2026-07-20 03:35

luvsdaty said: Not an insult but a weird experience with a Victoria escort, we really hit it off and probably the 8th or 9th time I saw her she was giving an amazing bbbj and mid bj she gets up and walks into her closet and starts making weird noises and flailing about. We'll I lost wood,got dressed and left,she was still flailing about when I left. I took a break from her and about a year later we hooked up again and she was apologetic and explained that she had mental health issues, I said no worries and saw her till she retired a couple years later. Click to expand... I was seeing a Victoria escort a few years ago for massage with happy ending. I had seen her once before for bj and although it went well there were some weird vibes and my spidey senses were going off a bit. Anyway, that second visit it was a disaster, she was clearly on something when I arrived (i should have walked right then), I laid out on the massage table and she started with the most bizarre, erratic rub down of my life, went right to jackhammering my limp cock as there was no way I was going to get hard with all the nonsense going on. 10 mins into the service she got a door dash delivery and asked if I minded to wait while she was eating. She was talking erraticly and seemed on the verge of a breakdown of some sort. I quickly got dressed, gathered my things and got the hell out of there thankful to not have been involved in some sort of incident. I obviously never saw her again and soon after didn’t see her advertisement around either. Kinda made me sad a bit for whatever issues she was dealing and I took some time away from the hobby.

avatar goldeneye95 2026-08-27 05:11

Not an insult really but I initially perceived it as one. One SP asked me if I was a virgin. I was mortified by that observation. Thankfully, she asked that during the initial chit-chat, before we had engaged in any intimacy. Then she revealed there are young men who like escorts to take their virginity.

avatar Dante22 2026-08-27 08:03

An SP once told me that I have more than average dick, but I don’t know how to use it 🥲😂 I don’t even know how I’m supposed to feel after hearing that 😆

avatar phool 2026-08-27 13:16

Dante22 said: An SP once told me that I have more than average dick, but I don’t know how to use it 🥲😂 I don’t even know how I’m supposed to feel after hearing that 😆 Click to expand... It sucks but once it turns into "ooh you really know how to use that big dick" it's lights out hot.

avatar Sheen 2026-08-28 18:28

I would make small talk at clubvibes functions and chat online with this person. Nothing sexual or any innuendo during the convos. One time while at a nightclub we are talking and she says to me "I'm never going to have sex with you." Kind of insulting as she was saying I wasn't worthy of having sex with her and it was out of the blue. 10 years later I book an incall and didnt recgonize it was her till halfway into the session. I guess in the end I did end up having sex with her. Wonder if she remembered who I was.

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