What would you do? HH or HR

avatar Coffeelvr 2026-05-22 18:09

Hi, My first experience a few weeks back, ended up prematurely ejaculating. Now, I’m considering trying once again. I’m in a bit of a conundrum, half hour or hour? I’m in YYC and there are a couple of agencies here where I’m extremely attracted to some of the SP’s. They offer both hh o hr, approx $250hh/$350 hr. I’m concerned with PE, and, since I’m 54, concerned if I did an hour, I may not be able to do so. I’m super healthy, but you never know. Or, I can book an hour with a Wonder Beauty provider ($280), and then if I I’m able to, I can pay an additional $80 for another go. This has the upside, if I can get it going again, at least I’ve save a little money, but in the other hand, the other agencies providers, I’m way more attracted to. Opinions? Thanks.

avatar Bang4thebuck 2026-05-22 19:29

Can never go wrong with more time! Feeling under the gun adds to the pressure to perform. Id rather be done in 45 having paid for an hour than pay for 30 minutes trying to rush it...

avatar Big Dick Bob 2026-05-22 20:43

Go for the full hour. You need less pressure to perform with minimal time constraints. If things don't go as planned, ask her to masturbate while you watch, or get a nice massage.

avatar Coffeelvr 2026-05-22 21:02

Big Dick Bob said: Go for the full hour. You need less pressure to perform with minimal time constraints. If things don't go as planned, ask her to masterbate while you watch, or get a nice massage. Click to expand... Jeez. Never thought to ask a SP to masturbate. That sounds super hot.

avatar Once you go black 2026-05-22 22:34

Coffeelvr said: Jeez. Never thought to ask a SP to masturbate. That sounds super hot. Click to expand... I have but only during foreplay before ejaculation

avatar Big_Guy_Rye 2026-05-22 22:47

The choices are simple for early shooters like yourself... myself, too. 1) Rub one out before you go see the SP...empty the chamber so to speak, shake off the nerves... and let her work out that second shot, thinking it's the first or only shot you paid for. 2) Pay for the half hour, or 15 minute quick-time, knowing that you shoot quick anyways....if you shoot that fast, don't expect to use the entire 30mins... get 'er done, and get gone... that's what 15-30mins are for. 3) Pay the hour, and pay for the MSOG as well... Start the session with a BJ until you pop, snuggle up with some pillow-talk while you're in that refractory period, then go for the main course.... and this is probably the best use of your time and money.

avatar Pumped 2026-05-22 23:30

Invest in the experience rather than just the result.

avatar Mr. J 2026-05-23 00:44

Half hour seems kinda short to me. I usually go for an hour or longer (depends on my bank account) and roll with the punches.

avatar beyond infinity 2026-05-24 09:02

I'm in the same age range with the same problem as you. Recently, I had been so horny leading up to a session, I had been through several erection cycles already before the session, then through a couple more during. When it was time to put the condom on, I was soft, then I nearly came while the SP was rubbing me to make me hard. I took over and only rubbed the base until I was about 3/4 hard, about enough to put the condom on. But the condom didn't get rolled beyond the glans before I exploded into it. A bit embarrassing, but still a good overall experience. My recommendation is to go with an SP who charges extra for MSOG. I've been in that situation and thought I was done for after the first, but because of my initial request for two shots, the SP was motivated and very skillfully brought about that second orgasm.

avatar Coffeelvr 2026-05-24 14:10

beyond infinity said: I'm in the same age range with the same problem as you. Recently, I had been so horny leading up to a session, I had been through several erection cycles already before the session, then through a couple more during. When it was time to put the condom on, I was soft, then I nearly came while the SP was rubbing me to make me hard. I took over and only rubbed the base until I was about 3/4 hard, about enough to put the condom on. But the condom didn't get rolled beyond the glans before I exploded into it. A bit embarrassing, but still a good overall experience. My recommendation is to go with an SP who charges extra for MSOG. I've been in that situation and thought I was done for after the first, but because of my initial request for two shots, the SP was motivated and very skillfully brought about that second orgasm. Click to expand... Thanks for the feedback. Thought I was the only one to have this issue.

avatar VinVan 2026-05-24 15:52

If I may proffer an opinion, you may wish to consider if your issue is one of 30 or 60 minutes, or one of research and communication. There are no doubt SPs in Calgary as there are in Vancouver who would be quite empathetic with your condition and guide you through it by either compassionate edging or MSOG. Do a search of the providers Ms Hunter or Ms Beatrice (both in Vancouver), both experts in edging. Ms Beatrice has an all you can shoot package and will milk you with patience and kindness for as many as you can fire. I suspect there may be similar SPs in Calgary. The key is to be up front with your issue; as you have deduced from this thread it is far more common than you initially thought. There is no need to suffer alone - go suffer with an SP 😂 Bon Voyage.

avatar RalphiEboy 2026-05-24 16:23

Big_Guy_Rye said: The choices are simple for early shooters like yourself... myself, too. 1) Rub one out before you go see the SP...empty the chamber so to speak, shake off the nerves... and let her work out that second shot, thinking it's the first or only shot you paid for. 2) Pay for the half hour, or 15 minute quick-time, knowing that you shoot quick anyways....if you shoot that fast, don't expect to use the entire 30mins... get 'er done, and get gone... that's what 15-30mins are for. 3) Pay the hour, and pay for the MSOG as well... Start the session with a BJ until you pop, snuggle up with some pillow-talk while you're in that refractory period, then go for the main course.... and this is probably the best use of your time and money. Click to expand... Luvit ahahaha

avatar RalphiEboy 2026-05-24 16:25

VinVan said: If I may proffer an opinion, you may wish to consider if your issue is one of 30 or 60 minutes, or one of research and communication. There are no doubt SPs in Calgary as there are in Vancouver who would be quite empathetic with your condition and guide you through it by either compassionate edging or MSOG. Do a search of the providers Ms Hunter or Ms Beatrice (both in Vancouver), both experts in edging. Ms Beatrice has an all you can shoot package and will milk you with patience and kindness for as many as you can fire. I suspect there may be similar SPs in Calgary. The key is to be up front with your issue; as you have deduced from this thread it is far more common than you initially thought. There is no need to suffer alone - go suffer with an SP 😂 Bon Voyage. Click to expand... Feel the love 💕 bros 😎 Awesome 👏🏻

avatar phool 2026-05-24 16:57

Go for 2 hours and you'll have plenty of time to get back in the saddle. Get under the covers with her, get her to give you a massage or tell you some hot stories, eat some pussy (or ass) or let her work it with her mouth while you wait for your friend to rejoin the party. Or train yourself to edge, that way you can stay in the pocket without busting. Trust me, 10-15 80% orgasms beats 1 full one every day.

avatar Equity Market investor 2026-05-24 17:46

I'm on the same boat as OP. At this point in my life I'd prefer a massage / BBBJ - HJ tease session only to boost back my confidence. Perhaps try a session such as that as see how you feel about that? I'm open to what ladies offering this?

avatar Once you go black 2026-05-24 21:09

Even if I only had enough for HH, I’d wait and save more till I had enough for One HR . Everyone is different, lots of guys prefer half HR , Some love 15 min , For me to have the experience I want , half hr isn’t going to cut it . 45 min will do , But one HR is still better , For my preferences . Not always willing to splurge but 90 min for me is actually ideal .

avatar Big Dick Bob 2026-05-25 21:37

Once you go black said: I have but only during foreplay before ejaculation Click to expand... Do it at the end of a session if you have time. It's a fun way to have one more orgasm for each person.

avatar 80watts 2026-05-29 05:34

The reality is how long do you want to eat pussy for?

avatar blueman2 2026-06-02 19:14

Only a half hour when booking an SP for the first time. If you really like her and want to see her again then you can upgrade to an hour. If you don't click, you've save an $100 you can invest in the next one.

avatar DetectiveBOOBS 2026-06-07 12:21

I’m too old to nut a second time within an hour or even 90min. My sweet spot is 45min. A lot of shops offer cim from 45min and 30min is too rush considering I need to shower before and after. Almost all shop charge an extra for a second shot between 80-100 a second time. It’s almost double as 30min. If you like variety and 30 is enough might as well try different ones at 30

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